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Is There A Manipulator In Your Relationship?

 
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Manipulators don’t hesitate to worm their way into a loving relationship, then turn on

financial or sexual pressure, covered by an often-sickening veneer of kindness.

It’senough to bring your self-confidence to its knees, so you need to be able

recognise

their wicked ways…



Excessive kindness: calculated manipulative manoeuvring



"When he’d pushed me to the limit, I threatened to leave only to have Philippe become

 as meek as a lamb, adorable and really unhappy. I was showered with flowers and

romantic holiday offers. I started to feel guilty and couldn’t quite recall why I had wanted

 to leave in the first place,” says Patricia, 40 and mother of 2.

The signs of manipulation: His attitude is in fact a calculated manoeuvre. "Instead of

questioning himself, and listening to your request for change, he deploys a strategy with

the sole aim of getting you back,” explains psychotherapist Christel Petitcollin. If you look

closely at their thought process, you’ll soon see that they have quite a basic ready-made

thought pattern, based on binary logic. It’s all or nothing, now or never, go or stay…

"Often impervious to criticism or self-questioning, they are capable of making short term

 efforts only to serve their own needs,” adds Sarah Serievic, psychotherapist specialised

 in psychodrama... And that’s why their behaviour More

Setting Goals and ...   Michael's Challenge 2

Hi, Gerry James here to take up Michael's Challenge 2:  creating a post about Goals.  Thank you Michael for another bit of fun and a fantastic  tool for all new FanBoxers!  I've set some suggested tag words in bold and blue.

So here's my submission for Challenge 2:

There's A Secret To Goal-Setting that Superstars Know

Do you hate setting goals?  Look at all the people at New Years.  They set Resolutions or Goals and have learned to expect failure.  Almost everyone is out of the running by April.

If "rules were meant to be broken", it seems "goals are meant to fail".

None of us likes failure.

Here's the problem.  Most of us evaluate our "goal" in win-loss terms.  My goal is to "win".  My earnings will be 1 Gazillion dollars (win), my speech evaluation will be an A (win), my team will crush the competition (win)....

   We set only "outcome" goals and the minute we do, we have set ourselves up for limited results.  We either win or lose.  And our wins are exaggerated.  We must be the best, top of the heap...  or, we've lost.  This type of either-or, black or white thinking puts us under a lot of pressure.  No wonder we lose steam fast.  And since "lost' means we are failures we are easily overcome by feelings of loss, dissappointment and depression.  Who wouldn't avoid that?

Coaches want you to have goals because ...  if you don't know where you're going how are you ever going to get there?  Ever played darts or pin the tail on the donkey?  Line up your sights and you can pretty well put that dart or tail where it belongs.  But blindfold you, turn you around 3 times to disorient you and tell you that if you don't get it right on the bulls-eye or the hindquarters you've lost your salary for a year ...   you can't see your target (goal) and you're not going to risk playing. 

Perhaps most damaging, when you set up your goals as win/lose ultimatums, you put your happiness and satisfaction with your performance in the hands of others.  You're asking evaluation based on outcome, regardless of More

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